Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Flaws and all

We can't look for perfection in an imperfect world. Ppl expect to be
accepted "flaws and all" and that's how it should be but the things
you're counting as flaws aren't flaws at all. Someone being obese or too
skinny is a flaw, some ppl can't help their weight for MANY reasons.
Having a mole in an obscure place is a flaw. Having a health or mental
illness is a flaw. Someone's assets being too big or too small
(depending on how u look at it) is a flaw.
I think ppl should check their definitions cuz flaws are things we can't
change in or about ourselves and have no choice but to embrace them and
hope others do the same. Lying- is not a flaw its something we can help
and stop doing. Neither is cheating or stealing; intentionally setting
out and going after something or someone that isn't yours... not a flaw!
Being a manipulative person isn't a flaw. Intentionally hurting others;
tearing them down and slandering their name, definitely not a flaw.
Smiling in peoples faces and turning around and talking bad about EVERY
single one of them. Doing and saying things that would naturally damage
trust and confidence in you is NOT A FLAW!!!
If I don't like you and choose to distance myself from you, its not
because I fail to accept your flaws... its becuz I refuse to tolerate
poor personality traits and bad intentions. I'm not perfect so I don't
expect perfection from anyone. But I will not subject myself to
intentional misconduct that's been slapped with a label of being a
flaw.
So when there ARE things we CAN change about us but we refuse to do
so... we can only expect to be rejected at some point. And can't sit
around making up sad stories and singing sad songs to convince ourselves
along with others, that WE are victims in the situation.
You basically got what you deserved get over it.

THE END

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