flaws and all??

We can't look for perfection in an imperfect world. Ppl expect to be accepted "flaws and all" and that's how it should be but the things you're counting as flaws aren't flaws at all. Someone being obese or too skinny is a flaw, some ppl can't help their weight for MANY reasons. Having a mole in an obscure place is a flaw. Having a health or mental illness is a flaw. Someone's assets being too big or too small (depending on how u look at it) is a flaw.

Personally, I think ppl should check their definitions cuz flaws are things we can't change in or about ourselves and have no choice but to embrace them and hope others do the same. Lying- is not a flaw its something we can help and stop doing. Neither is cheating or stealing; intentionally setting out and going after something or someone that isn't yours... not a flaw! Being a manipulative person isn't a flaw. Intentionally hurting others; tearing them down and slandering their name, definitely not a flaw. Smiling in peoples faces and turning around and talking bad about EVERY single one of them. Doing and saying things that would naturally damage trust and confidence in you is NOT A FLAW!!!

If I don't like you and choose to distance myself from you, its not because I fail to accept your flaws... its becuz I refuse to tolerate poor personality traits and bad intentions. I'm not perfect so I don't expect perfection from anyone. But I will not subject myself to intentional misconduct that's been slapped with a label of being a flaw.
So when there ARE things we CAN change about us but we refuse to do so... we can only expect to be rejected at some point. And can't sit around making up sad stories and singing sad songs to convince ourselves along with others, that WE are victims in the situation.
You basically got what you deserved get over it.


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